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The life and tales of a 40-something black-gay Los Angeleno, rebuilding his life from his childhood bedroom as he cares for his mom with Alzheimer’s. This shit is hard, but I’m told there’s lots of good livin’ to be had over the hill, and I intend to find it!

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Will McNair
A Letter to Myself: Happier Times Ahead
Oct 4

Oct 4 A Letter to Myself: Happier Times Ahead

Will McNair
Life

I’ve finally made it to the bottom of Happier Times Ahead Mountain. Now comes the hard part.

A Caregiver Anniversary
May 5

May 5 A Caregiver Anniversary

Will McNair
Life

Five years ago today my life turned on a dime and I became my mom’s caregiver.

Baby's First Movie Premiere: American Fiction
Dec 6

Dec 6 Baby's First Movie Premiere: American Fiction

Will McNair
Life, Shenanigans

American Fiction is an incredible film! Also, unrelated, Michael Ealy is still phyne af!

“Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can.”
— Arthur Ashe
 

@willjnmcnair

My TikTok algorithm saw how many BL series I watch and pushed me right on into male-male romance book land, which 🤯! This genre is VAST! Not quite ready for the dark romance or fantasy I-fell-in-love-with-a-mystical-monster stuff, but I’ve hea
My job’s 2026 Summer Outing was loads more fun than I anticipated when “Segway Tour” popped up on my calendar. Felt incredible to be outside at the beach, and Segways are surprisingly speedy and easy to navigate. Also, I finally del
I ventured outside! Delicious breakfast at The Waffle and influencer-and-or-tourist antics at the Paul Smith pink wall-building-thing. T’was a good day! 😎🩷
It’s our birthday today, buddy! We’re a grown-ass 47 years old! Feels good! Life now may be about as sad as our hairline, but trouble don’t last always. We’ve still got our beautiful smile and we’ve begun—just this
Earth Day Succulent Soirée at work today. My little office garden is growing. 🪴😃
It’s my little lady’s birthday today! Happy Birthday, Mom! Grateful God has kept you with me, and I wish you a year abundant in joy, good health, and happiness. I love you! 🎂🎈🎉❤️